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Step 1: Take inventory.  Creating a vision for yourself and your life first requires you to ask yourself “what it is that gives my life meaning, purpose, and joy?”

  • Look to your talents. 
  • Look to your abilities. 

What makes you smile the instant you think of doing it?  It is not difficult to determine what your special ability, gift or interest is.  Simply ask yourself: “What do I look forward to more than anything else in the world?”

Step 2: Tap into your imagination.  Now that you have decided to take action by creating a list of your talents, interests, and joy activities, it is time to form a vision around them.

You do this by doing what every child on earth has the power to do at will: Simply use your imagination to create your reality! 

Start dreaming of all of the ways in which you can spend your time doing what you love.  Do not worry about making sense at this stage, just dream as if you were a child again.

Step 3: Set your goals.  Once you have decided what you want to do to create a better life for yourself by developing a vision, the next step is to set goals that will serve as stepping stones toward fulfillment of your vision.

You can start setting these goals by asking yourself questions like: What do I want to accomplish in my life?  What kind of legacy do I want to leave behind?  What would I do if I had all of the money in the world? 

Make sure your short term goals are realistic and the rest – big!  Be clear, meaningful, well defined, and make sure your goals EXCITE you!

Step 4:  Enjoy the journey and pay attention.  As you begin a new day today, always keep in mind everything that you have written down and envisioned for your better future.  Although you probably do not have the means to immediately jump into your goals and plans above, you can still start working towards a new reality by thinking of the outcomes while you are doing your best today.

Of course you will still have to go to work today in the job that you would rather not have, deal with some problems, and do the things you must do that you would rather not be doing, etc. but your job now is to do them with vigor, with excitement, with “knowing” that your future will change according to your vision when you are ready.

Igniting Your Desire
Making the decision to dream big can be a scary endeavor for many people, and yet it’s the exercise that leads us to living a life we absolutely love.
What if we gave ourselves permission to dream beyond our current reality? Where could these thoughts take us?
Taking these three steps can help you begin building your dream life.

Honor your discontent.
Discontent is an important signal from our soul that something bigger is seeking to emerge through us. Give yourself permission to enter and explore the realm of your deep desires.
Harness this discontent by letting the dream begin to live in your mind and heart as a true possibility. Notice your body and your emotions. Does the feeling of desire heighten and your sense of aliveness? An expanded feeling of aliveness is an important indicator that you are on the right path.

Practice repeating “Up until now…” to keep thoughts of your past experience from limiting your possible futures.
If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get the results you’ve always gotten. Pause for a moment. You’ll hear the old chatter that dictates every reason for not taking a risk. Listen, then pause. All these negative experiences and disappointments may have been true in the past. Now is the time to shrug them off. Your history does not determine your destiny. All your disappointments and regrets belong to a time that is ending at this moment. In the next moment, let out your yearnings in a first roar of awakening. This is a roar of triumph.

Here’s to your BEST LIFE!

Consciously co-create with God, and the impossible becomes possible.
Co-creation means you partner with Spirit to build the greatest life you can live. When you recognize yourself as a co-creator, you ask for guidance and break through the self-imposed barriers that have stood between yourself and your desires. Begin each new day thanking God and concentrating on a desire of yours that you previously believed was out of reach. Just for that day, act as if what you wanted was possible. Then see what transforms.


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Mindset, Self Development

4 Steps To Creating A Better Future

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